Totally toxic friend. He may be trying to fill up the silence with constant talking and the subject he knows the best is himself. Annie 7 – how rotten. Matty, For example, you go on a date with a guy and most of what comes out of his mouth is himself. Ask their opinion about a problem you have to switch the focus over to you I like this trick because you can use it in almost any conversation and it’s also interesting for the other … Dear person who has been talking for six-and-a-half minutes without taking a breath,. They might as well be third grade boys who are pulling your hair for attention. Conversation is like a tennis match — it’s back and forth and it takes two people to take a game to the next level. But be prepared to keep the conversation going the whole date…